Best American Spots for a Same-Sex Wedding

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With a new addition to the ranks, it’s time to name the best spots for a same-sex wedding…in the U.S.

Following California’s passage of Proposition 8 last November, which revoked the right of homosexual couples to marry, Eva Holland posted “The World’s Best Spots for a Same-Sex Wedding.” The piece highlighted six international destinations where folks of the same sex could still tie the knot.

Photo: CarbonNYC

Today’s post comes on the heels of more upbeat news — Maine has become the latest U.S. state to legalize gay marriage.

The bill passed 21-13 in the Senate and was signed into law by Governor Baldacci a mere hour later.

Rights groups are obviously thrilled, though it’s possible the new legislation could be overturned by voters, much as it was in California.

New Hampshire lawmakers also approved a gay marriage bill, but Governor Lynch has yet to sign it. The governor’s contact info can be found here if you’d like to weigh in.

Anyway, with a new addition to the ranks, I think it’s time to name the best spots for a same-sex wedding…in the U.S.:

Portland, Maine

The “other” Portland just got a little hipper. Now you can walk cobblestone streets, dine on clam chowder, and wed your same-sex partner. What are you waiting for?

Visitors, also make sure to check out Matador’s green guide to Portland.

Des Moines, Iowa

As Julie Schwietert reported last month, Iowa’s Supreme Court recently ruled in favor of allowing gays to marry.

Since California folded, this makes the Hawkeye State the only one outside New England to give homosexuals this right. The first marriages were held April 27th.

Cape Cod, Massachusetts

Yup, this one was the only U.S. destination featured in Eva’s piece, and it’s still relevant today. Not only was MA the first to open its arms to gay marriage, it also allows couples from out of state to tie the knot.

Burlington, Vermont
“What better place than historic Waterbury to exercise new rights of matrimony?”

Once upon a time the first state to authorize civil unions for gay couples, Vermont joined the marriage ranks last month when its legislature overrode a governor’s veto to pass the law.

Burlington is gorgeous in the summertime. The late evening sunsets turn Lake Champlain a deep crimson — the perfect backdrop for your outdoor nuptials.

Waterbury, Connecticut

Just a month before California’s Prop 8, a Connecticut Supreme Court ruling made it the third state to accept gay marriage. What better place than historic Waterbury to exercise new rights of matrimony?

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Have you tied the knot in one of these or other U.S. destinations? Share your experience in the comments!


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Freelance writer and Trips co-editor Hal Amen is currently in the midst of a volunteer year in South America. Find tales of this and other adventures on his personal travel blog, WayWorded.

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  • Tim Patterson replied on May 9, 2009

    Hooray for Vermont!

    I was so proud of Governor Douglas when he signed…wait…when he….um…..when he…wait…what’s that? Vermont’s governor vetoed the bill to legalize gay marriage?!?

    Never mind. At least the VT legislature overrode Governor Douglas, who is a barrier to progress on so many important issues.

    Nice post, Hal.

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    • Hal replied to Tim Patterson on May 9, 2009

      Thanks Tim. Can’t believe Douglas is still in there! He was first elected right after I graduated from UVM, and that seems like AGES ago…

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  • Christine replied on May 9, 2009

    At least I can say I live in the Bay Area, which overwhelmingly voted against Prop 8 (duh). And I believe in my heart of hearts it will be overturned, hopefully sooner rather than later.

    I mean, c’mon, just because we elected the Terminator (twice) doesn’t mean we can let Iowa be the only state off the East Coast to allow gay marriage.

    It’s just WRONG, I tell you.

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  • tom gates replied on May 10, 2009

    The idea of getting married in Waterbury is just plain frightening. Good for Portland though…although they called it “quee-ya” up there, not gay.

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    • Hal replied to tom gates on May 10, 2009

      Haha! I’m not a CT fan either, but hey, you gotta give it to them for being one of the 5 out of 50…

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  • Amanda is a Traveling Photographer replied on June 1, 2009

    I really still can’t beleive the CA decided when back to the dark ages. Riduculous. I’ve been to 6-7 same gender weddings so far.

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